YAY! I was scared after I posted this thread that I would get in trouble for linking to outside sites, so I searched to see if this would be a problem and it's not!!!
I found this in a post from admin:
Please keep signatures to two lines of text or less and links to other forums are not allowed at this time. Discussing related ("sister") sites to 4WomenTalk is allowed. Links to your personal photo galleries, blogs, or MySpace accounts are acceptable.