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Originally Posted by rivermom
Janet - I am very impressed by how you are handeling this. You being positive in your thinking and actions clearly shows!!!  Your husband will see this and your positive energy will flow right through him to comfort him.
Your a good wife by being by his side and easing his worries by how you've talked to him. I am sure he appreciates so much you telling him that your family will see through this and it will all work out.
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Thanks Sheryl...I sure hope he gets a better attitude about it all and think of how great he'll feel when it's all over. He's 54 and has never had to be in the hospital for anything, so I know the fear of the unknown can be overbearing.
We'll get through all this I'm sure. The only thing that really scares me is...he want to get his will done...I just hope it's a good thing and not an a premonition.
He knows he hasn't taken the best care of himself...drinks often, pretty much chain smokes, has rhuematoid arthritis, and then the bone on bone in his back. He is already thinking things are stacked against him. I'm sure he'll do fine and then he'll see that he's been given a second chance to clean up his lifestyle and I truly believe he will.