Janet, I agree with all that has been said here by all your loving 4WT sisters. Your hubby looks like a very nice man. BTW, mine has a beard, too. You are being a very good and supportive wife. Don't worry about the will being a premonition. It's just a sensible thing to do, surgery looming or not. We don't have one either, and really need to get that done.
Will be praying for you, your hubby and all involved.
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Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32