I completely agree with everyone else. My hubby holds his mother in very high reguards. I call him a momma's boy, but his mother is a wonderful lady & even called to check on me while I was pg with his first child & her first grandchild knowing he was at work. She has told me if I ever feel she says something wrong or out of line to please tell her. He has even called to ask her a question about parenting or our relationship & she told him to talk to his wife. I am very lucky to have a wonderful MIL. Sounds like Dani is on polar opposite end. No matter how much they love each other if he chooses his mother over his WIFE even when his mother is CLEARLY wrong, Dani needs to find someone who can put her first. What about a family and children later with a family like his? When you make a decision to marry someone they become your first priority. I'm not saying he should stop loving or alienate his family but he should demand respect for his future wife from them. I have been with 2 men my family hated. They were always polite to these guys & never ever said anything to them or about them to me until I asked for advice. Our mother was not happy with mine or Angie's decision to marry so young. She did tell us her opinion but wished us the best of luck. Angie's worked mine didn't. The statement she made about marrying the family not just the man I do believe but not the way she used it. When you marry someone you become part of each others families. Family should build you & your spouse up & try to help as much as possible not treat you the way Dani has been treated. Ok I'm sorry enough ranting now. I just think she needs a REAL man who can put her first!
