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Originally Posted by Janet
Ashley, the worst case women abusers cry to manipulate. Don't fall for this tactic. It's like turning on and off a faucett It probably worked for him as a young boy with his mother and he figures it will work for you too. Keep yourself busy and just don't answer the phone. He sounds like trouble and I sure wouldn't want you stuck in a relationship that is so manipulative. There is definitely something wrong if he is calling you this often . You really need to be strong and walk away.
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I was gonna say a similar thing. He's not crying because he's sad, he's crying because he got caught & the woman he thought he could walk all over finally got wise & stood up to him. Do not answer your phone. I would turn my phone off or change the number & give others another way to contact me. I dated a manipulative man in high school. I know how you feel. He cheated on me & used very personal things I had told him to get me upset so I would come home from college to see him. I lost 15lbs my freshman year at college (this was something i didn't need to do). My roommate used to find me hiding in my closet crying because i didn't want anyone to know how bad he made me feel. I met a nice guy when I went to florida & realized i didn't need someone like this to treat me bad the rest of my life, i could do better & deserved better. You deserve the same, we all do. Stay strong.