I completely agree with what everyone else has said. Ashley I have been in this situation. I kept talking to the guy because I loved him & felt bad for him. I didn't want him to hurt. He held me hostage in my home. He kicked my door in & attacked my new boyfriend when I got one. (now my husband). He kept everything my kids & I owned trying to get me to come back to his house. I took out an order of protection & ended up giving him all of our stuff that was at his house (everything we owned) in court because the judge would not give me an escort to get it. BUT I cut all ties that day. It's the only way he would stop. He had made some threats & I was sure he would have followed through had I not stood up for myself & invovled the legal system. I know how scary it sounds but believe me you will feel much better once you have put a stop to his contact.
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Traci
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