After 3 years of marriage, dh and I decided together that we'd try to get pregnant. If it didn't work out, we'd stop and wait a while before trying again. Well, it must have been perfect timing because I found out the Monday after Mother's Day 1989 that I was pregnant. TJ was born in January of '90. DH and I had said that once we had a baby, we'd like to wait at least 4 years before trying again for another. Taylor was a surprise for us! I had wanted TJ to be at least 3 years old before we even tried but Taylor was born 30 days after TJ celebrated his 3rd birthday. When the time's right, you'll know it - either by planning it or by being suprised
