I'm late jumping into this thread, sorry.
And I know he's come and gone but for the future, here's some advise...
You don't have to like a person to be polite. (I've learned this the hard way LOL)
Because you respect your Hubby and you want to please him, you can be the better person in situations like these by just being cordial and polite. Then when you go into a room, close the door, you can turn around and make really ugly faces at him and nobody will ever know the difference!
I do this all the time with my Inlaws. Most of them drive me insane!