Oh Janet, I feel so sad for you....I'm not going to tell you to accept this or don't make a mountain out of a mole hill, it sounds like these things tend to leave you feeling very sad, hurt, disappointed & unappreciated even if the intent wasn't there. .... it's to bad what "should have been" has turned into "what you didn't want" ...I hope you can find some comfort in the things that do bring joy in your life like your son & pets... Now as for the bed....I would have told him I was going to watch some tv & I would have slept on the couch & he can sleep in the darn poo...one more day of not doing the wash wouldn't have hurt
....as for the money, I sure hope no animal digs that up
