[DianaB]

I think that your fiancee is not sure if you have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Is He number one in your life and do you live a life that's pleasing to Christ? I know that for a Baptist it's important to be baptized as a part of your salvation, but the most important part is how you live your life AFTER you've accepted Jesus as your savior and been baptized. Your relationship with Him. Are there things in your life that your fiancee can look at and question where you stand as a Christian?

If you have religious differences I highly recommend that you talk them out. People tend to think that differences aren't important, but they tend to come out, especially when you have children to consider.

Your minister isn't going to try and embarass you. He's there to help you figure out some of those differences you have and to help you with some questions that you may not of thought of in your future marriage. Don't be afraid to talk to him. Maybe you could go in and talk to him alone about your questions. Remeber he's there to help you.

I don't know if I helped or not. Good luck and if you have any other questions don't hesitate to ask us.