[DianaB]

It's a little hard to answer a serious problem like yours. If you would like to introduce yourself and tell us a little bit about yourself, then we feel like we get to know you rather than to just jump into a huge problem like your having. We're a very friendly and helpful group if you want to stay and be a part of the group. It's kinda' like walking up to a stranger and telling them your problems without getting to know them first.