[Marilyn]

Ataloss, first, it's nice to meet you, and hope you find this to be worthwhile site. There are lots of fine ladies here. We weren't ignoring you. At least some of us who are active here were at work when you posted and just got on here and saw your post.

To respond to your post, I'd have to be honest and say that based on what we know from what you have relayed to us. I'd be very concerned as you are. The situation does not look good. You need to decide if you really love him and if this is something that you think will pass, and you are willing to live through this, or do you want to confront her and possibly learn that what you already are pretty sure is happening is true. Confronted, she may tell you what is really going on. There is a slight chance that it is innocent, but from what you've told us, it does not look innocent.

You are probably a much stronger person than you realize. You can make it through whatever you need to. We are here if you need to vent or need encouragement.