That's a rough one! Can you sit down and calmly and quietly talk with him? If you don't want them together, then as your husband, he does need to respect that
because it's hurting you and causing you to not trust him.
You may have to make up your own mind what you want to do if he continues, not as an ultimatum, but as a reality.
Personally, I wouldn't talk to her - she's not your spouse.
Life's too short to suffer, honey, especially over a possibly bad relationship.
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