[Janet]

Hi and welcome to our site. Hope you decide to stay with us.

I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with Judy...(sorry Judy), but she would probably tell you the truth sooner than your husband. He may not be sure he wants his marriage to end and if something is going on, you can be she does and will tell you if you confront her.

As far as your husband, you need to talk with him too, about trust and how a relationship can not survive without it. If he wants out of the marriage, then sorry, lucky you! No one should have to stay with a two-timing creep and you're better off without him.