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Old 07-05-2007, 11:06 AM   #9
Lissa
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Originally Posted by blowry
I think we are ALL guilty of doing this. We are around them everyday so if we are upset we need to vent to someone....If I have had a stressfull day, hubby can tell right away. He will ASK me what's wrong...I will then let it out but, first I tell him...I'm not yelling AT you....I am yelling TO you! This way they will know right away that it isn't anything they have done and that you just need to vent!
Wow, I need to remember that!!!

We had a preacher friend tell us that the way he and his wife have survived fights is when they see one coming on one of them will ask "Is the roof on fire?" and the other replies "No cause there's a burn ban." Kinda cheesy, but it brings them back to earth and calms them down.
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