I agree with the others. This is YOUR child. Times have changed in a MAJOR way and so have the kids. The girls are growing up and blossoming out at a much faster rate these days. She raised you and now it is your turn to raise your own child. I know it can't be easy tho. I go through the same thing with my grandmother. She is always saying that even tho my DD is a very good child there are still certain things she shouldn't be allowed to do. Oh well i just i hear ya and go on about my business. I would love to say it will get better but it probably won't.
Just wait till ourDD's grow up and have kids of their own. I can see us doing the same thing. LOL Take care.
michelle