The only person I have sex with right now is myself (no man in my life)! LOLOL Just bust out with the toys and extra batteries, and I'm satisfied.
Now for my public service announcement 
: If you've never tried a vibrator, go out and get one NOW!!!!!!!!! I don't have an orgasm from just sex, never have (I'm going on 30). But, if you have a man who's comfortable with it, he'll "let" you use it during sex. Man is that 100% better!