[Mandy]

I'm glad you vented, you know we are here for you!
Sorry you feeling like this, but i see it as a wake up call. It's time to live life for yourself, and you owe it to yourself to be happy!
If it means with a new partner, if that's what you want, dont let anyone hold you back.
Dont wait for your daughter, i know this must be terribly terribly difficult, but girl, you cant sit back, and wait for her to stop, and smell the roses. If she is happy living with a man that keeps her under control, then that is her choice, but do not let it affect you whole life.
You have alot to live for girl, you have 2 beautiful fur babies that will never ever hurt you!
You are a very pretty lady, dont let "them" get to you, because that will spoil the fun life has to offer you, and that is a whole lot!