Thank you all for your wonderful advice. It's so good to know I'm feelings normal things. I was so worried. Rebecca your post was especially comforting especially because I know you guys got married fairly recently. Sometimes I feel that weirdness and than most of the times I think "HOW LUCKY AM I. I HAVE THE MOST WONDERFUL MAN!" He cleans the house, washes the dishes when I cook, he brings me flowers, he's affectionate and when I do the laundry he folds it all. He's great in 98% of the things that matter to me. Sometimes he just gets too defensive and it makes me think twice about things because then we end up getting into huge arguments. But I guess it sounds like it comes with the territory. We've just had so much stress and drama stemming from moving and weddings, and our own wedding. It's nuts! Well I don't know what I'd do with out you ladies