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judy · 10-08-2007, 05:06 PM

Thanks y'all! I decided that the best way to move on is to forgive her and love her
no matter what.

This is no easy task....but I have about 30 years at least to get to that point.

Thanks for your prayers that we do reconcile. Then I wouldn't have to all this closure, forgiveness, etc. stuff. Seriously, that is really what I want. I do love her and I love my grandchildren, plus she's got a serious illness and I want to help her.

Sometimes I wonder why God decided that I have to be so strong. I wish he would have asked me first! I would have said "oh, no, no. no....thanks anyway."

10-08-2007, 05:06 PM	#20
judy Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY Posts: 8,097	Thanks y'all! I decided that the best way to move on is to forgive her and love her no matter what. This is no easy task....but I have about 30 years at least to get to that point. Thanks for your prayers that we do reconcile. Then I wouldn't have to all this closure, forgiveness, etc. stuff. Seriously, that is really what I want. I do love her and I love my grandchildren, plus she's got a serious illness and I want to help her. Sometimes I wonder why God decided that I have to be so strong. I wish he would have asked me first! I would have said "oh, no, no. no....thanks anyway." __________________ *Judy*