I kinda want to say he will pick the golfing. Only because this "golfing lodge weekend away" thingy has been something he's talked about for over a month now but he didn't know the date until last night.
We've camped previously this year and it wouldn't hurt anything really if we didn't go. And besides, I know he really was looking forward to this golf trip.
Most likely I will just tell him to go with his friends, it's not really a biggy. I think Id feel too guilty going camping knowing how much he is missing out on had he gone golfing for the weekend. We could camp anytime, but this golf weekend might not happen again and I don't want him to miss out on it.