ice queen

i know how you feel...but to be realistic you can't go back and change things so you just gotta pull yourself up by your bootstraps and keep on living. i read on here that there was a woman who didn't make a big deal out of all the little petty things so i am trying to do that myself. I just spent over an hour picking up after my hubby and his friend-his friend is asleep on the recliner and hubby is still in bed snoring. they left full ashtrays, supper dishes, glasses, empty beer bottles and empty ciggy paks all over my house and left the damn seat up!!!not to mention every light in house was on and hubby didn't put the puppies up in there pet taxi for the night so i've been cleaning up pee all over the place but i'm not saying nothing to them just gonna smile and make them lunch!!! I used to jump his butt all over the place and get my stomach all tied up in knots but i got better stuff to do with my time than be a nagging beeyotch about every little thing. i guess being a everybody's maid is my role in life