I really really really hope your visit there goes so well Judy. Holiday gatherings can be pretty stressful and it seems there are always those who wanna suck the love right outta the room. I know YOU wont let this happen if anybody tries.
Just remember you are there because you, your daughter, and your grandkids want to hug, continue and build on your all's relationship, and just enjoy each other. Keep your head high and your confidence above any of those who try to smash it.
I know it's early to say this but truly enjoy your Thanksgiving!! Happy Thanksgiving!!!!