I've got 3 grown children and 2 grand children. My best advice would be to wait until you're at least 25... and then start thinking about having kids. Once they're here, there's no going back, and they do become the center of your universe.
Enjoy each other and your freedom to just do what you can to prepare financially, get your education out of the way, and be certain you are as settled in your home, jobs and relationship as you can be before upsetting the whole balance by bringing in a baby.
Babies are wonderful, but they do change the whole dynamic and structure of your life and relationship. Even just sitting on the couch cuddling gets interrupted when a baby needs fed, changed, or entertained.
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'A simple way to take measure of a country is to look at how many want in.. And how many want out.'
England 's Prime Minister Tony Blair'
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