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Albert Einstein said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over but expecting different results. I know when my hubby and I were having problems, I sat him down and told him that what we were doing was obviously not working for us. We kept doing the same things over and over expecting our relationship to magically get better but it wasn't. Both of us had to commit to making our marriage better and to both doing things to move forward in a better direction. If I were you, I would have this same conversation with your husband. But this cannot be a one-sided thing. Ya'll BOTH need to make committments to change things in your life to make your relationship work. If your husband is not willing to make any changes, that is not your fault, and I would walk away. You could also give him an ultimatum.........tell him counseling, or you're done. At least then you'll know that you tried everything you could to make it work.

I've only been married for 2 years and I'll be the first to tell you that it is definitely hard work! It is definitely a job that you have to work at everyday in order to be successful. And BOTH parties need to be committed. It takes two to make a marriage work.

Best of luck. I'll keep you in my prayers.