[Janet]

I know you're just venting Tink, but I just feel the need to say something. I don't want anyone taking advantage of you ....even your son. Linda (Cecil) is right. Stop doing things for him. I'd go as far as putting a lock on the fridge too. Start charging rent and whatever else you feel is necessary. Why should he get out when he's got it so good?

Why not let your husband talk with him...man to man. I was always told that in any situation....you can only be walked on if you're lying down.