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Originally Posted by Ponyup
My husband doesn't like to kiss. And personally he's not the greatest kisser either but, it's better now. I miss those people you could just kiss for hours & he's just not into that. No one will be perfect & you have to decide what you are willing to live without. All my hubby's wonderful qualities totally out weighed his short comings in the kissing department & now it's totally a non-issue. However if you are making him feel like he's undesirable or doing something wrong the two of you need to try & work it out or he'll just get more hurt & perhaps distant. I'm with janet; try & figure out what the problem is & then fix it. Men can learn. My hubby was an aweful kisser when we met, but I've changed my style & he changed his & now we get on pretty well when we do it now it's nice. But you have to tell him what's up or you'll hurt his feelings.
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Same with me, my bf's good qualities outweighs the fact that we dont really kiss. I don't make him feel like he is undesirable or anything like that, i just pull away sometimes if he wants to full on kiss, like i will peck him a lot but to make out i don't like to with him. I will occasionally do it but not all the time. I guess it's not that big an issue for him, just for me. But it's something i can live without or learn to love it later on. He is a great guy so the fact that we don't kiss is not such a big deal, i just question if it will affect our relationship later on, we only have about 2 yrs together. Everything else is good. Thanks!
