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Working with kids can be the most satisfying and the most difficult job in the world.
She probably does need your compassion, but it sounds like she needs to learn to live within your boundaries to get it. I never wavered with my boundaries. I loved all of my kids, but those who understood my rules got a special love. It was interesting, never spoken about, but those that didn't get that wanted it and worked to get it. It worked for me, and used their energy instead of mine.
Once I realized that I didn't care quite as much as I always had about my kids, I got ready to retire. I never wanted to get to that "teacher (or bus driver) burnout" point.
If that's where you're at, you might want to think about leaving.
Life is too important to work at a job you don't love.
Anyway, now that you're going to be skinny, you can be a model.
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