http://www.aqua.org/dining.html
This is the best I could come up with
I had my camera with me for a reason! It was just too hectic...
Pier 3 pavilion level 1, is where the wedding would take place in option 2. Although it didn't seem very much like an eating area to me
Pier 4 pavilion level 1 is the reception area of option one, right off the wedding area with the dolphins.
and Pier 3 pavilion level 4, is where the reception would be held in option 2, taking the scenic route through the exhibits on the way up. I did see a small food area in here, tucked in a corner.
I am leaning towards the first option so far... it is such a hard decision!