Brooke,
I know this may seem cruel, but this is your house and your family. My thought is you are going to have to lay down the law! Dying or not people need to respect each other and family situations. She maybe a sis-in-law, but in your home she is an outsider. I think your husband should tell her that this is between you and him and to leave your kids out of it.
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Traci
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