lol! pearl, I just read the whole thread too! lindsey, did he ever adjust to layla? Pearl and I have a friend whose dogs name is layla! About all the drama, the only thing I want to say is since I have gotten older, my dreams have changed. Every relationship I have had has taught me something and I dont regret them. Even the bad ones! but I have found that I dont always end up wanting the things I thought I did. Whether you travel or stay with the bf, I think happiness is something you choose. So be happy girl!!!!!!