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Originally Posted by Janet
I sure wish I had some good advice to offer. Gina's done a really good job. You do need to think it through, because she's right, if you separate, you'll definitely be doing it all then.
Remember too that your husband as worked all day. Don't jump him when he walks in the door. Give him some time to adjust to being home and then just ask him to help do this or help do that.
Men really don't think the way we do..a shame isn't it?...so some of them need to be told or asked nicely to do whatever. The things around the house that are important to us are not important to them. We have to tell them.
As far as the in-laws...don't fight with them, the battle will always be there if you do. There is a big difference in wanting to be right and having respect for them, after all they did something right or you wouldn't have fallen for their son. I always found keeping a small distance and not giving out all information is a great way to keep the family together.
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Thanks Janet, Yes i am done talking about the in-laws, i said what i had to say to his mother and Mike also..
As for the stuff around the house, he needs to realize that i work also 8 1.2 hours a day too, then i run home to pick up the baby, feed him, bath him, cook, dishes, laundry, clean the house etc. i need help too... he wants to work 7 days a week and he does side jobs at night so i don't see him til 9:00 at night and i know we have tons of bills so does everyone else! were managing. He needs to spend time with his son too. That's another one of our fights too! Micah is only yound once. He's going to regret it one day, not spending time with him. its' sad.