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I'd have never married my 1st husband. I was already pregnant when we married, so I could have had my daughter without all the crap that he brought into my life. He was a lousy husband and father.

I see him now and wonder what the heck I was thinking... I wasted 7 years being miserable with him. He's become an old shriveled up shell of his former self and no longer poses any threat, which just makes him seem so pathetic. We see each other several times a year because of our daughter and shared grandkids, so are civil, but it sure makes me wonder... where was my head???