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rivermom · 09-20-2006, 12:38 PM

I understand and can appreciate your feelings towards this. It's not an easy situation.

Hopefully he will realize himself that being away so much is putting a strain on your relationship and he'll want to be home more. I think that if he doesn't come to terms with this on his own, he will only resent being home anyway just cuz you wanted him to. This can be a no win situation.

So...as I said, hopefully he will WANT to be home to WANT to please you. Then you BOTH win.

Good luck.

09-20-2006, 12:38 PM	#2
rivermom Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Tontitown, Arkansas Posts: 2,475	I understand and can appreciate your feelings towards this. It's not an easy situation. Hopefully he will realize himself that being away so much is putting a strain on your relationship and he'll want to be home more. I think that if he doesn't come to terms with this on his own, he will only resent being home anyway just cuz you wanted him to. This can be a no win situation. So...as I said, hopefully he will WANT to be home to WANT to please you. Then you BOTH win. Good luck. __________________ ~_/> , /\/\ ,,, Sheryl When I grow up I want to be a horse whisperer!