I agree Gwen, well said.
I find it difficult talking about a lot of things, or even getting a warm fuzzy feeling from many of the older members of the board. I see a lot of hand slapping, and this shouldn't be posted here....It is not very inviting. I realize you ladies were all friends before we came here, but realize how you may be coming across to someone outside the group. It feels a little like ganging up.
(again, not trying to point fingers here) but a woman posted a picture of her adorable son in the general section, and not a word was said about it being in the wrong section. Personally, sometimes I don't check out all the different areas and I could care less if something ends up in the wrong spot from time to time.
I think this conversation is interesting, perfectly normal, respectful and healthy. If it goes beyond that, by all means. Lock it.