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Gina · 09-21-2006, 05:14 AM

I agree with most of the women on here, everyone is saying something that fits the tee...For starters I also had a stay at home mom, and she had 3 sons , and myself. I was as you would say spoiled. I never did anything, when I was 11 yrs old. As I started getting older I would help my mom clean the house. I always liked a clean and orderly home to. When I met my husband and became engaged I started to learn how to cook , asking for receipes and trying them on him...lol I became a good housewife, with the skills that was required but at a later age.

Now to bring you up to my daughter whom is 19 and away at college, she till this day has never lifted a finger lol , when I go to her dorm I see that she is keeping it pretty clean. So they learn from what they see and I think when she is out of the house, A- she will do it , or B- pay someone to clean lol Sorry but most of these girls today want the best life and they pay for it , if they can afford it when they are married..I have a son and my son would NEVER ask his sister to do something she would tell him get off your lazy a** lol

Getting back to your situation she is a child, its good if she wants to learn to be self sufficent, but I agree not to serve a man hand and foot. I believe in doing things out of wanting to not being told to do by a man. The objective is to be a team and do things together. Hey its great if she is learning and likes to do things... No problem with that..

09-21-2006, 05:14 AM	#18
Gina Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,025	I agree with most of the women on here, everyone is saying something that fits the tee...For starters I also had a stay at home mom, and she had 3 sons , and myself. I was as you would say spoiled. I never did anything, when I was 11 yrs old. As I started getting older I would help my mom clean the house. I always liked a clean and orderly home to. When I met my husband and became engaged I started to learn how to cook , asking for receipes and trying them on him...lol I became a good housewife, with the skills that was required but at a later age. Now to bring you up to my daughter whom is 19 and away at college, she till this day has never lifted a finger lol , when I go to her dorm I see that she is keeping it pretty clean. So they learn from what they see and I think when she is out of the house, A- she will do it , or B- pay someone to clean lol Sorry but most of these girls today want the best life and they pay for it , if they can afford it when they are married..I have a son and my son would NEVER ask his sister to do something she would tell him get off your lazy a** lol Getting back to your situation she is a child, its good if she wants to learn to be self sufficent, but I agree not to serve a man hand and foot. I believe in doing things out of wanting to not being told to do by a man. The objective is to be a team and do things together. Hey its great if she is learning and likes to do things... No problem with that..