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Sweetie I know exactly how you feel. I wish I had great advise for you, but I don't. I went through a very similar thing my junior year of college. I moved in will a girl I thought was a friend of mine. We got along great & had a lot of fun. However soon after we started living together her boyfriend moved in. I would get charged for the food he ate, I never came out of my room because he was always there watching t.v. I couldn't use the internet to do my homework because they were constantly on. She stole my cloths. It was a hard situation & I started having panic attacks. I'm not good at standing up for myself & I just let things go. I hardly slept & my only saving grace was that I went to my boyfriends place every weekend. My good friends had a house in town & once I told them what was going on they let me crash there as often as I wanted & I could come in & do homework or watch t.v. anytime I wanted even if they weren't home.
You have to take care of yourself, it sounds like you are having panic attacks & with you preexisting health problems this can be very bad. You are having panic attacks because you feel trapped like there is nothing you can do to control or stop the situation. This person is not your friend, she has no respect for you or herself. When they begin to make noise I would bang on the door until they answer & then inform them that they need to keep it down. This has also gone on long enough I would inform her roommates of what's going on & then come back & tell them that they can go over there now because her roommates know what's up. Please take some kind of action, this is affecting your health.
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