My hubby has NEVER made any negative comments about my appearance. I guess he values his life.

Seriously, there's not ONE among us who is perfect, and that includes those men who want a trophy to wear on their arm. I can't imagine wanting to open THAT can of worms!
My best friend is a tiny lady who has always had to watch her weight because every pound shows. Her first hubby was a total pain about it. I wanted to smack him many times due to the stupid comments he'd make to/about her. They ended up divorced because she learned he'd been having a long term affair with a woman who was at least TWICE her weight! 20+ years later he is still with the larger lady and he has yet to marry her because he said he can't be married to someone her size. To me, this says nothing about the ladies, but volumes about what a total jerk HE is!