Thank you everyone. I'm feeling a little better. We talked everything out, and with the whole sex topic he said he feels like I push him away because he's not good enough or I'm not attracted enough. I told him what I found out today just from looking online, that most birth control pills hinder testosterone which is what the sex drive comes from.... and basically I can go to a doctor and see about another type of pill, or get off pills all together. I might also see about an iud or something... but one of my good friends got pregnant while using an iud a couple years ago
So I'm not sure but I promised that I will see a doctor because I don't want to fight over it anymore, and I do understand how he feels inadequate but I know he doesn't understand why I'm not the same as him. And I DO want to fix it, I don't want to be like this forever. I'd like to have kids someday
And he can say whatever he wants about my guy friends. I'm not going to stop having friends just because of Kyle. They will be meeting each other next weekend anyway, and I hope Kyle sees that my friend is harmless. I told Kyle that it's the exact same situation he's in with his old best friend. She's a girl and she's so pretty and friendly and everything. But she got a boyfriend and stopped hanging out with Kyle and his whole group of friends and they never talk at all anymore. I told Kyle that if she broke up with her boyfriend and wanted to hang out with Kyle and go for drinks or whatever, I would have no problem with it! And he kind of shut up after that.