I agree with what everyone else has said and wish to add that this woman had no right to call you in YOUR home and threaten or insult you. You were only defending yourself when you called her a "b***h" and she's lucky she didn't call me because I would NOT have been so nice.
As for you losing your job over this, I highly doubt it. This woman has a reputation for being a troublemaker and your AP is standing by you. All of your years of professional service will count in your favor and I think an "offense" like the one you supposedly committed would not warrant getting fired over. Now if you had struck the boy or something drastic like that, maybe she'd have a leg to stand on. Please try not to worry and we are all praying for you and please keep us posted on the situation. Hugs to you.
