I would probably do exactly as my dad did when he learned his illness was terminal - nothing different. He didn't want sympathy or "poor pitiful me" looks, he wanted his life, and what he had left to live of it, to be treated the same as he'd always been treated. The one and only thing I would do would be to make a seperate video for each of my boys and one for my hubby - the rest of my family, I'd probably write them letters but that would be the only difference. There's no place special I would want to go - I'm already there, with my family and friends
So, for me, I would just continue on with as normal a life as I could.