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					Originally Posted by  Janet
					 
				 
				Dobie, they already know how you feel, so I wouldn't worry too much about it.  I would attend the baptism and then maybe go for a bite to eat (depending on time of day) and then go to their home after the naming ceremony.  I would still take a lovely gift. 
 
You wrote you don't know why it makes you feel uncomfortable, it could be a number of things, but I believe you're being spoken to.  The problem with most of us is we don't listen.   
 
Don't know if this is any good advice, but I know you'll do what you can feel comfortable with. 
			
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 It's good advice, I think I'll do that - there's a small shopping center near there home, I can do a little window shopping after the baptism then go back to the house later on.  Thanks everyone - I think I needed someone else to tell me it was ok not to attend.  The first time felt different because the ceremonies were on 2 seperate days.