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Originally Posted by Tink
I've worked in a rehab house with alcoholics and addicts so have sat in on a lot of therapy sessions for situations like yours. It sounds from what you've said
You need anger management as badly as he does. If you're going to slap and push people, you have to expect to get the same back. It sounds as though you're baiting him... you set the tone and he retaliates. Quite honestly, if you were to try to press charges against him, the fact that you pushed or hit first would likely mean it would be you that got carted away and locked up.
It sounds like a sick relationship from both sides, and if it's escalating now, it's unlikely to get better without a lot of help.
Sorry, I don't imagine that's what you want to hear, but based on what little you've told us, it is the impression I got.
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okay i feel like i need to defend myself a little bit.. i do believe it is wrong to slap someone but until someone has been in that position i was in where they hurt you soooo bad.. it was as bad as cheating but it wasnt it.. of course you are going to react.. when you feel that ultimate betrayal.. are you saying all the cheating husbands who get caught by their wives that get slapped, all the wives needs anger management? and as for the pushing.. i was trying to get the phone back.. it wasnt like a shove.. it was a push like "hey give me it back" as he is way taller and there is no way to get it back without somehow touching him. i am definitely not abusive but thanks for commenting back i can see how you thought i was.