Why not take the higher road, (it would kill me), but ask her since she's there so much, if she would be interested in volunteering. There are so many things to do at the schools. I not only volunteered in the classrooms, I volunteered for the whole grade my son was in, not just his class. Some of the other teachers needed help too. I also volunteer in the elementary office. It's great fun and gets me out of the house a little bit. I can volunteer at my convenience so just about anyone can help (that doesn't have a full time job).