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Sorry if my post came across the wrong way, let me see if I can word things better.
I have been on my own pretty much since opting to move in with my dad at the start of the divorce when I was 14, he worked days and nights... had a place with my older brother in my later teen years, moved all over the East coast, seen all kinds of crazy things and lived with all kinds of crazy people so I had to grow up and toughen up fairly quick.
So when I see you say you are crying in a lot of your venting posts, I don't really know how to respond in all honesty as I think we have lead very different lives up to this point.
I try to give my honest advice, point of view and possible solutions. I tend to be very to the point and I know typed words aren't always perceived the best. Believe it or not, I am a lot like you, writing allows me to best express myself. Face to face I am more an observer, very laid back. I don't have much to say unless it is a smartass joke or unless I am spoken to first so I am used to being misunderstood as per my personality.
So if my concern for your emotions came across as b&%chy, those weren't my intentions.
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