[Janet]

Originally Posted by celstu1

Im not much older but Id never go back to that age either! aaahh I love the security of self that comes with maturity! I stopped being jealous YEARS ago and its because I think Im a GREAT catch! (not to sound cocky, cuz Im really not cocky!) If a guy wants to cheat on me, its totally his loss. So I really don't have a jealous bone in me. It feels soo good to have gotten to a point where Im mentally secure of who I am and what I have to offer! woohoo Also to date guys mature enough to not be jealous over petty things like that as well. Nothing turns me off about a guy as much as jealousy. Its such an ugly trait. I won't be controlled and miss experiences over a guys jealousy!

Lindsay - good for you for keeping the friends you want and doing what you want. Hanging out with Dan as a friend is not disrespectful. You could tell Kyle EVERYTHING you did last night without feeling shame or guilt. The only time you might be doing something wrong is when you cannot tell your partner, then you might think of how you would feel if the roles were reversed. ya know? I'm also glad to hear you are going to rebuild back up your circle of friends again! Its so important to have some good friends.

I really like your way of thinking!!