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Old 10-04-2006, 10:26 AM   #10
Ponyup
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Originally Posted by hunbun
i think this is my hubby's one flaw. he is pretty ruthlessly truthful about what he thinks of my body and how i look and is constantly concerned that i may have eaten too much and gained weight. it's really annoying when he tells me i look like i've gained weight especially along the stomach, and i just roll my eyes and respond..."uh... having period... retaining water! feeling bloated!" and then follow up with the comment that i'm going to go finish a box of crackers.

i mean, i want his honest opinion, but the delivery can use a bit of tack and reality. i'm in my early 30's now, not in my teens like when we first met. metabolism slows down as i age and that's just being realistic. a size 3 top won't button over c cup boobs without it looking trailerpark trashy. i work fulltime and don't always have the time to go to the gym 6x a week like i used to. ugh... sorry... just ranting...
Unless he has the perfect body he needs to keep these thoughts to himself.

My hubby won't say anything bad or good for that matter. If I'm unhappy with my body he supports me to change it, but he would never critize or tell me to loss weight. He's put on a couple of pounds himself. No one has the perfect body.
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