There is an old saying something like, "If you love something, let it go" I know your mom loves your sister and her family, but part of loving them is helping them to be self sufficient, productive members of society. Some people can't learn until they are forced into that situation. Yes, it is painful, difficult and almost any other difficult concept you can think of - but it is the right thing to do, especially for the younger family members. Some can't do it though, and that is sad.
Best of luck!
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Gayle
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