Thanks guys! I've thought of therapy for other things that happened throughout the relationship that it would probably help to get off my mind, and I guess that's a start to this. I was just hoping that I could control my dreams better and get over this!! We broke up in april...but really, he finally stopped bothering me mid august...so i guess it's still fresh. I feel stupid having to go to a therapist since I'm studying psych...but in the same sentence I know it's okay to get help. Man this guy is such a nightmare...literally!!!