I am so sorry your sweet little girl (and you) had to go through all this and at such a young age.  From a mother's point of view, I think it would have taken a toll on me.  You must be a very strong woman and a great mom.  
I'm relieved to know that all is going to be fine with your daughter.  I do hope this has not affected her in a negative way about becoming a woman.  We complain and all, but it's not so bad.  We definitely have a place in the circle of life.  
God bless you and your daughter...